My husband and I almost fell into love at first sight at the same time. Our love stories started since we knew each other 17 years ago in Anshan University in China.
Rock, my husband, was not only my classmate but also my desk-mate when we were studying mechanical major in Anshan University. My mark was always the worst in our class, I failed to go up to the next grade in the second term. However, Rock never looked down on me. In contrast, he often helped me; furthermore, he required to repeat the second term in order to accompany me, though his grade was enough excellent. At that time, I was so thankful for his encouragement that I decided to love him for ever.
When we graduated in 1996, we came back to Shanghai and started our careers. At first, Rock was only a mechanical engineer in a small plant. After several years, his experience and talent were found by Rotec, a famous company whose headquarter lay in Sweden. As a technical manager, he worked hard and didn’t stop working for the cooperation until immigrated into Canada. He tried his best to earn money for our family. Every day, we were busy but happy.
Rock was very handsome and attractive. That is the reason why a lot of young girls had a crush on him. I am always proud of that I am his wife, let the girls admire me.
During the first several months of emigration, we had to separate. He was still busy with his job in Shanghai and I was eager to attend program at Nait. We had each different lives then. When he came back to Edmonton again several weeks ago, I was so joyful. At the same time, I was extremely sad when he told me that his girl-friend had been pregnant accidentally. We have been spouse for more than 10 years but no children. Their baby was inculpable despite they had already made mistakes. I thought over and over, finally, decided to divorce from Rock to return him freedom. We did do! But now, I still can’t stop loving him…
My love story sounds good for its romantic beginning and dramatic final. Obviously, there is a great deal of temptations in the world. Every one needs more perseverance in facing kinds of difficulties. I have to persuade myself to understand the true meaning of LOVE: If you love someone, please don’t mind whether you can own him or her for ever, just bless him or her, it's enough.
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the main problem is there was a period of separation on which you were in edmonton but he was in China. unhappy families range from each unhappiness. you face to challenge the situation. there are so much more good men in the world. even if you were in love each other, now you are free the same as your ex-husband you gave. you are supposed to look for your new life
I am so touched by your love story, I admire you to be so frank to share your experience with us for a woman's inner emtional world. I think both of you owned true love and valueless adolesent period, I am not sure, but maybe you give it up so easily? I don't why your ex-husbant betray you, maybe because of loneliness. Under such circumstances, an opportunity to let him amend the mistake maybe possible. I know you must be so hurt terribly by your husband's unforgivable mistake, but I still feel regretful because I can see you love him so much. But anyway, let's lood forward and do our best bravely. Everything is possible, just dream what you want to dream.
oh~~you are strong and independent. I could not believe what Mark did for you. Everyone has reason to make mistake, but it must not hurt others. He should regret in the future.
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