So far, I can not be called a qualified mother to my 3-year old daughter. Before I immigrated to Canada, I usually worked long hour every weekday and and spent little time on my daughter. It is my mother who invests most of her time and energy to take care of my daughter. I feel so appreciated for the kindness of my mother. Now my husband and I am in Canada while my daughter still stay in my home country. As planned, we will bring her to Canada in the next year, so I can not see her, play with her and hug her until next May, it's really a long time, I miss her so much. How can I be a good mother in a remote country? I tell myself that I must do something special to maintain a close relationship with my daughter although she doesn't live me.
If you have any good ideas to be a good mother, please share with me.
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It is hard when you are leaving little ones in back home specially your children. You must be strong and communicate as much as you can I know everytime a child down the streeth your feeling is like that when can I meet my little girl. It must though hand in there one day you and daughter will enjoy this great city of Edmonton.
Don't be so sad, everything will be fine. I usualy encourage myself when I encouter problems. When you feel your circumstands bad, think about the worse people then you. consequently, you could find the balance between. You are very luky, but I have not seen my parents, brothers and sisters for almost five year.
Be optimistic!
She knows you love her.
I agree with Kadra. You can talk with her as much as you can through telephone or internet.
I don't have children (yet) so I don't know how to be a good mother, but when I was at boarding school I used to get letters from my mother. She wrote in big, plain writing so that I could read the letters by myself. She also put pretty stamps on the letters. I loved getting mail from her.
it is good for you that you can live with your daughter in here next year.
so now you can focus on learning English.
i think it is better to nurture kids by their parents. it will contribute personalities growing to children.
It's cruel to separate with her own daughter for any mother. I hope your duaghter will be sent here ASAP. You are a good mother because you love your daughter.
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